Step up to the Rack and let yourself be restrained while others explore and tease your body, embracing the excitement of being touched and admired. Whether it's a light grope, a playful squeeze, or a tempting stroke, the night promises to ignite your fantasies of being the center of attention. And for those eager to take control, you'll have the seductive opportunity to run your hands over willing bodies, teasing and tantalizing others as you dive into the electrifying world of mutual desire and objectification.
What is the Meet Rack?
The Meet Rack is a chance for people who crave a bit of objectification to fulfill those fantasies. People will go "on the Rack" and be restrained, either naked or with some clothing. The rest of the conference-goers are free to come around and Meet and Grope the people on the Rack!
Note that since this is a new location, and we haven't figured it all out yet, we may use a combination of overhead trusses, trees, outdoor spaces like decks and deck railings, etc.
The idea of the Meet Rack is to have a very mild objectification scene with a stranger in a safe and monitored environment. It is a chance to handle the Meet. The Rack can be a casual stroking, a friendly rubbing. It is a little squeeze or a titillating grope and a brief fondling. The point here is to tease and have fun, NOT to monopolize someone or have a full scene.
We will have Rack Monitors present to ensure everyone participates in good faith. We are here to have good, old-fashioned, not-creepy, not-painful and absolutely not-stalker-esque, fun. There are no second chances, if you break the rules, you're out. As we've said in the past, don't be "that person".
The Rules of the Rack
The rules for the gropers are simple.
- ONLY TOUCH BARE SKIN. Do not touch anything with clothing on it. If you are unsure, do not touch it.
- ANY FORM OF PROTESTATION MEANS STOP IMMEDIATELY AND MOVE ON. This includes STOP, YELLOW, RED, SAFEWORD, shaking a head or anything that looks like "no" or a protestation. No discussion, no objection, no asking why, just move on. (And, just to be crystal clear... don't come back to that person.)
- New - NO BODY FLUID TRANSFER. This means no kissing, no licking, no biting, no oral, no rimming, no anything that potentially transfers body fluids.
- NEW GLOVES FOR NEW GENITALS. You need to be wearing new gloves for each pair of genitals you touch. Get the gloves from a monitor. People often want their genitals touched and you don't want to be trying to find them.
- NO COMMENTS ABOUT PEOPLE'S BODY / KINK / LOOK / OUTFIT / PRESENTATION, etc. People are vulnerable and hearing the wrong offhand comment can destroy their experience and be hurtful.
- KEEP THE EXPERIENCE POSITIVE. This is not a space for degradation or humiliation. Positive comments only. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.
- OBEY THE MONITORS. They are the law and must be obeyed without complaint or talkback.
- IF IN DOUBT, DON'T DO IT. People going on the Rack want to be touched. But perhaps not everywhere and perhaps not by everyone. If unsure, err on the side of caution and don't grope it. Don't be "that person".
- THE RULES ARE THE RULES. The rules of the Rack must be obeyed. Even if the bottom is begging you for more. Even if magical sparks of connection are flying. Even if they are only two seconds away from cumming. You must keep it light and move on. Consider coming off the rack and finishing the scene elsewhere.
I want to go on the Rack (not the Locker)
When / Where
Congratulations! This should be a lot of fun. Come to the main dungeon at 7:30 to go up on the Rack. (7:00 for those with accessibility needs.)
As you are deciding to go on the Rack, please consider your ability to hold boundaries with strangers. This event aims to be a safe and positive experience for everybody and while the Monitors are there for your safety, it's your responsibility to escalate any discomfort to the Monitors in the first place.
What should I bring?
- Cuff/Restraints - There will be numerous overhead bondage points. We will hang loops of rope from them, but we strongly advise you, for your own comfort, to bring a set of cuffs for yourself if you wish to use those bondage points.
- Earplugs/Blindfold - It can be loud and overstimulating. If you have sensory issues, you may want to bring earplugs or blindfolds.
What you should NOT bring:
- Toys - Remember this isn't a scene, this is casual groping.
- Effective Gags - You need to be able to communicate with the gropers and the monitors as needed.
What should I wear?
That's up to you! Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy and confident. The main rule of the Meat Rack is that only bare skin can be touched, including genitals (only with new gloves). No clothing may be touched. That means that you are responsible for the ambiguity of your clothing and what it conveys.
Clothes that might be ambiguous:
- Fishnets (Can your legs be touched?)
- Harnesses (Can your torso be touched?)
- Thongs (Can your butt be touched?)
- Nipple Pasties (Can the rest of your breast be touched?)
- etc.
Think about how your outfit may be misinterpreted and dress to your own comfort level. Remember, you can always take off more clothes later!
(Remember, if you are not wearing underwear, someone will probably attempt to put a finger inside you! Perhaps in more than one place.)
I wanna spice it up a bit
Here are some extra ideas to consider while going on the Rack:
- Blindfold/Hood/Gag - If you feel confident in your ability to monitor your own safety and speak up, consider wearing a hood, blindfold or gag. These might heighten the experience of the objectification without being too far into a full scene. Wearing a blindfold will change the experience for you, but also make it easier for people to approach you.
- Facing away - Occasionally, you may consider facing away from people so as to present your "other side". Some people may find it difficult to approach you face to face but will delight in approaching your rear.
- Write on yourself - You can also write things on your own body. Having people read your body instead of interacting with you is an extra level of objectification. (Note, we aren't monitoring this)
- Bring contact cards - You may also consider filling out some cards with your Fetlife/Discord contact which you can give to people who grope you in the ways you wanted to be groped.
If you have a tendency to squirt, please grab a bunch of Chucks from the safety station when you set up on the rack, and let your rack monitor know so they can help you use fresh ones as needed.
How do I get in contact with people afterwards?
Read the "Speed Meeting" topic Speed Meeting for more information. We will have cups for you to grab at the beginning. The gropers will have contact information that they can drop in your cup for you to contact them later. If you do not have a cup, you do not want to be contacted.
Meet Rack Monitors
The Meet Rack monitors are there to make sure your experience is positive. They will help you go up on the Rack, come down, and keep an eye on the Gropers in your section. Give them a heads up as you're going up so they can be aware of your needs while you're on the Rack.
Please escalate immediately if you have an issue. The Monitors catch most things, but they cannot catch everything. They will respond to any version of a safeword including NO, YELLOW, RED, SAFEWORD, or any indication of discomfort. If you are unable to speak, make finger horns with your hands as a non-verbal signal to your monitor who will hopefully see it and come assist you.
Please tell them about any issue or potential issue you are having. If someone pushes your boundary or makes you feel uncomfortable, they may be doing it to others as well. It is important to handle these situations early to keep the event a safe and positive experience for all. There is no harm in providing us the extra information and you will remain anonymous.
Do I have to stay on the Rack or in the Locker the whole time?
No. You can go on and come off the Rack or Locker as you please. There have been space constraints in the past, but you are welcome to be on the Rack for as long or as short as you'd like. If you are planning on only going up for half of the rack, please prioritize going up for the second half of the event to help with space constraints.